Nice guys finish last
I would really wanna know who came up with this phrase? Let me guess, some asshole(s) who got ahead in life by back stabbing. But let's see if these "wise guys" really finish first. What does finishing first mean anyway? Money? Power? Combo? Do these really make them happy?
The rich and famous are considered the epitome of happiness, but we really don't understand how miserable they really are until you read their biography. They may seem happy because they have all the comforting elements at their disposal, but underneath, there is a different story going on. Yes they spend a lot of money and they all look happy and beautiful, but don't you think most of the time they behave like that so they cover their biggest insecurity and issue called lack of happiness?
Sadly, this phenomenon is not limited to the rich and famous; any person who treats others unfairly would be included in the unhappy bunch. The way I see it, the manner in which you treat people, sets up your environment and the way you want to be treated by them. With power and money, you may artificially "earn their respect and obedience," but in reality, people don't care about you. You usually see right through this harsh reality, and understand you are not really wanted and loved; result: lack of happiness.
The moral of the story is, when someone is not nice to you, or treats you unfairly (boss, your congress person etc.), he/she will be punished sooner or later, and not by an invisible hand (e.g. God), but by themsleves. They are responsible for their own misery. Just try to be a nice person, and you will be happy, and you will "finish first."
I am not saying this cause I think I am a nice guy and as the result I won't finish last. I guess I wanna be a nice guy since I don't think it is worth being an asshole and artificially get ahead in life, but right under seemingly happy surface, stay so unhappy. Who cares about being rich and powerful; happiness is the point of life, and it sure doesn't come in the form of money and power. However, our human nature drives us very strongly towards money and power and we consider them as THE source of happiness.